This program is for couples who wish to be happier, bring back the spark from their wedding day, honeymoon and anniversaries on a consistent basis and improve the parts of the marriage that cause stress and make it feel unenjoyable. This is couples who do not wish to settle for mediocre or average marriages but, instead, want the best marriage possible long-term.

There is an adage, “If your marriage is not growing stronger, it is getting weaker.” In fact, we know that marriages are never on neutral so, of course, you have to grow it versus becoming comfortable. Unfortunately, that’s how couples who have been marriage for 5,10, and even 20+ years get divorced. They stopped working on their marriage while the problems mounted until the pressure was too great for the marriage skills. Don’t let this be you. Be part of the 50% who do not get divorced because you were smart and worked on your marriage during all phases. It’s like physical fitness, you should always stay relationally fit to handle the obstacles that come with life, marriage and family like a champion. In marriage, only the strongest survive.

A) In the BHBW program, you get a full six hour marital masterclass that improves your: Better Conflict Resolution- how to resolve differences without fighting (necessary conflict that builds the marriage versus damaging it) Sense of Connection- learn strategies on how to feel close and connected again Sense of Appreciation- learn strategies for making sure you acknowledge good deeds and make your spouse feel properly appreciated Communication- learn how to listen deeply and really feel your partner’s emotions, dreams and wishes and keep conversations rich and meaningful Consistency with Dating- learn strategies for maintaining a consistent dating life throughout the lifetime of the marriage without having to remind, fuss or feel like you are begging for a date with one other Couples Teamwork- learn strategies for identifying and partnering on couples goals to increase wealth, health and making dreams come true Positive Thinking- learn how to implement strategies for maintaining positivity, resiliency and grit so you don’t quit when times get challenging Creating & Maintaining Your Legacy- complete exercises on building a marital and family legacy plan so that your marriage stands the test of time and generationally blesses your children, family and community. B) The BHBW program also includes monthly marital video sessions that help you implement each skill and get live advice from the course creators and special guests each month. As a special bonus, you are allowed to submit specific questions that will get addressed anonymously during each class so that your specific needs are met. C) The BHBW program provides you access to exclusive blogs, articles and interviews that strengthen your marriage D) The BHBW program provides you with a supportive community of marriage couples who are thriving, happy and overcoming challenges just like you are. We are what we see.

You have access to the course for a lifetime. It yours. You have access the live, monthly classes and recordings for as long as you are enrolled. You can stay as long as you desire or cancel at anytime.

Honestly, it really depends on your dedication level to implement the skills and strategies offered from your marriage. To make it easy, we do monthly follow up live, monthly group marital coaching trainings to help you implement the skills and hold one another accountable. Also, the strategies in BHBW are research-based and the core of successful marriage counseling worldwide. We give you all the tools you need to improve your marriage from the comfort of your home, even if you live in different cities (separated, military, long-distance, high travel, etc.). Also, we boast many success stories from improved marriages where one spouse started the program and implemented the interventions in the marriage and the partner changed. Sometimes, all you need is one MVP to change the marriage.

You get to choose. We’ve found that couples have more fun when they are live, on camera and interactive because the teaching format is fun and handles topics that couples love (amazing sex life, wealth building, communication, fun dates, etc.). However, we also have couples who prefer a low profile and watch anonymously. All couples send in specific questions anonymously and we address each one with privacy so that you get your specific marital issues resolved.

This is a popular request and not as difficult as expected. Let’s just say that membership has it’s privileges. There is a separate fee for working with one of both of us (as couple) and we offer all services via telehealth. As clinical psychologist and marital expert, Dr. Tartt has been counseling couples towards better marriages for over twenty years. Occasionally, some couples will ask for a couple’s approach and sessions can be set up with both Dr. Alduan Tartt and Mecca Tartt. Inquire inside the program.